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PROF ONONUJU’S MARRIAGE COUNSELING AND BROKEN HOMES RESTORATION

Prof Ononuju’s marriage counseling and broken homes restoration is a ministerial programme of both El Theological College and Redemption Campaigners mission.

It is a big, a serious and a spiritual programme aiming at helping all would be couples, all singles who intend to marry and all married people who desire peace and continuous love and harmony in their marital relationships. It is a family building programme and marriage guiding ministry. It is for both those intending to marry, those searching for life partners, those searching for life partners, those already in courtship or marriage courtship or marriage engagements, those planning to wed, the newly married, parents, those whose families are in crisis, those whose marital relationships are confusion, the afflicted homes, old marriages with pains and problems and for general family building and broken homes restoration. The programme is for those whose love is weak, those in family sickness and crisis, those about to divorce, those whose pillar of marriage is about to be broken, the divorcees who want to reconcile and all those in one marital confusion or the other.

There are four major areas of this family programme which all intended couples and all families with similar cases are to focus their attentions.

General marriage counseling.
Broken home restoration.
Family building programs
Solution to family problems.

These four programs are the main focus of Prof Ononuju’s marriage counseling and broken home restoration. God has been helping Rev Prof. Emma Ononuju to be an expert and visible authority in these areas. Hundreds of broken homes, divorcees, peaceless families and demon afflicted homes have restored through his Biblical counseling and anointed prayers. Many singles have known the will of God in marriage, while hundreds of intending couples have been guided through Prof Emma Ononuju’s Bible counseling.

The combination of his counseling, prayers and deliverance have given his birth to family success, family peace, family restoration, family progress, harmony and family love restoration. Many singles whose marital pipes were demons have married.

This program goes with Biblical counseling prayers, total deliverance and Biblical guide to family life. It is a holiness and Biblical program which attracts God intervention quickly.

There are hundreds and thousands of testimonies about family liberations, family healing, family restoration, marital peace, comfort homes, harmony restoration, marriage reconciliation, marriage according to God’s will, knowing whom to marry and more testimonies about God’s presence in former crisis prone homes as a result of Prof Ononuju’s marriage counseling, Biblical guidelines, prayers and deliverance. Below are the major issues in this programme.

Nevertheless, those who need one marital guide or the other should contact Rev Prof Emma Ononuju through these lines: +234-8107 843 029,
+234-808 8857694.

GENERAL MARRIAGE COUNSELLING
This is an internet marriage counseling of Rev Prof Emma Ononuju to all who desire to have peaceful homes, godly children, love in marriage and the continuous harmony in their families. We advise all in one marital case or the other to come in person to see Rev Prof Emma Ononuju and prayers.

Nevertheless, those in far countries should call, write or request prayer and guidelines from the couple, because there is no distance in prayers, nor distance in divine directions. Here are general advice to those intending to marry or those in courtship or those searching for life partners.

40 THINGS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE ENTERING INTO MARRIAGE

Marriage is a life time business that ends only in grave.
Marriage is not a business of infants but for mature adults.
Marriage is the strongest and the greatest union on earth.
Marriage cannot work without divine love which is the driving force.
Marriage is not a hasty and casual relationship
Nobody should enter marriage relationship without adequate preparation and without adequate conviction. The would be couple should be spiritually fit, physically fit, socially fit and psychologically fit as well. There must be spiritual preparation which is the foundation of solid homes.
There must be economic readiness and steady hope of sustenance before entering into marital business.
Is there any history of impotency, infertility or chronic diseases that should be treated before joining?
Is there any curse that should be broken before joining?
Is any of the intending couple owing some individuals, banks, cooperate organizations or associations which the hope of payment is not near?
What of the family background of the intending couple, is there any history of evils?
Are the intending couple of the same faith and the same scriptural conviction?
What is the purpose of your marriage union? Sexual relationship? Companionship? Love or bearing of children? (Your purpose has final determination).
The man must have his own private apartment where he lives and not a squatter.
There must be readiness in all domestic and economic properties at home.
The blood status must be considered.
Health status must be considered.
HIV, blood group etc must be checked.
Check whether any of the would be couple has married before and if such had taken place, discover the cause of such separation or divorcement.
Is the woman still seeing her monthly menstruation if not, what is the cause? This must be considered.
Check whether the male organ of the man is actively functioning, if not, what is the cause, if this is not settled, it may cause divorce in future.
The temperaments of the would be couple should be considered, can the two live peacefully with contrary motivations?
Is there any darling sin in each of them and if so, what is that?
Is there any clash of interest, what is that which the man likes greatly that the woman hates greatly? This matter must be settled before joining and before entering into marriage relationship.
Marriage is not a game of likeness but a relationship of great love.
Do not marry anyone because you pity him or her, nor because he or she if rejected by others.
Do not marry because the person is poor and has no helper, if you do, you can’t be the helper.
Do not marry him or her because of his or her stature.
Don’t marry anyone because of fame, money or because of any other acquisition, if you do, the failure must surely start from there.
Don’t marry because of his or her education, social position or his or her present business status.
Don’t marry because of family background nor because of family acquisition.
Do not marry because of beauty or handsomeness.
Don’t marry because political position.
Don’t marry because others love him or her.
Don’t marry because of your pastors prophecy on whom you will marry.
Don’t marry whom you don’t love and whom you cannot cherish.
Don’t marry by emergency, nor by flesh and never by what others say.
Tell God about your proposed marriage program and have enough time to seek God’s guidance and leadership in your marriage.
You are not marrying that your people, mother, mother-in-law, father-in-law, brothers and sisters to control your family, but you are marrying to be one flesh with your life partner alone.
You are marrying to raise children and godly family with your life partner and this vision should be on top of every program.

TWENTY (20) THINGS TO AVOID BEFORE ENTERING INTO MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP

There are many family destroyers that all would be couple should avoid before entering into marital relationships or before joining together as couple. Below are those things to avoid which are future family destroyers and the warms that eat family foundations.

Avoid pre-marital sex because premarital sex is fornication which in future begins to harm the family peace.
Avoid all forms of kissing, romancing and any issues that can lead to immoral feelings because these will kill your trust for each other in future.
Avoid double roles, don’t engage two persons at the same time, because this is the devil’s trick to harm your future relationship.
Avoid hiding your private weaknesses to your would be wife or husband, because this may break your marriage if discovered later.
Don’t lie to your would be life partner.
Don’t use enticing statement to catch your partner, this brings regrets at last.
Don’t aim or plan to go to the altar of joining with pregnancy, this must surely generate to bitterness at last.
Don’t allow your people or friends to detect whom you will marry.
Avoid side talks, false prophecies and false dreams because these are devils tools to break families.
Avoid tempting God after God has assured you on whom to marry.
Don’t force yourself on the person who doesn’t love you for marriage, because such union has short period to last.
Avoid using charms, occult powers or any diabolic means to get life partner, because at the expiration of such charms, crisis, hatred, divorce, fighting or death shall follow your marriage.
Avoid using gifts, money or property to entice your would be life partner, because any family that is built on that must surely collapse when such items are no more coming.
Don’t speak bad of whom you want to marry at his or her absence because that shall become the sign post of your marriage through your existence.
Don’t reveal any secret you learnt from your would be partner to another person and don’t share his or her weaknesses with others.
Avoid all oppositions to each other and avoid all forms of antagonistic relationship with each other, because that can grow and generate to big family confusion later.
Avoid comparing him or her with another person, nor challenge him or her with your former lover, because this is a very family hostile tree that is too hard to cut down in future.
Don’t despise him or her because of his or her poor level of education, poor status, poor position or poverty at present.
Avoid anything that can harm the love, kill the interest and disturb the relationship.
Avoid hypocrisy, pretence or anything that would hide your true colour before your would be life partner.

All spinsters and bachelors praying for marriage should without a failure follow the above listed principles in order to succeed. Rev Prof Ononuju is a blessing to this generation. There are hundreds of bachelors, spinsters and couples who have be blessed through the counseling ministry of the Ononujus. For more testimonies see www.eltheeco.com, then check miracles in ononuju’s ministries or click to “miracles of family restoration”. In case of any help, you can call +234-8107 843 029, +234 80888 576 94.

BROKEN HOMES RESTORATION
There is always hope for the cursed cities as there is hope for the broken families. There is no doubt that family crisis and pains are caused by one thing or the other and there is no doubt that healing of the broken homes shall also come from one divine source as well. There are many godly principles to heal, to keep, to restore and to future broken homes and to keep unbroken homes fresh and clean always. There are thousands and many testimonies from former victims of the broken families who were healed through the counseling and prayer ministries of Rev Prof Emma Ononuju. Below are things to do in order to keep homes and families alive.

FORTY (40) THINGS TO DO IN ORDER TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY FRESHLY AND LIVELY
There are things to do in order to keep families and homes freshly, lively and godly. Man is both a destroyer and at the same time a builder. Here are forty things that man can do in order to keep his family, house, home and marriage godly. This is the business of all married couples. The principles are for men and women and for all couples who desire the best for their homes, houses, families and for their marriages. Below are scriptural steps to marital survival and for family progress.

Man must love his wife with all his heart, might, soul and all his will.
Woman in the same way must love her husband with all her heart, might, soul and will.
Marriage should be seen as cleaving, as a covenant and as unbreakable relationship on earth.
Marriage is the union of two good lovers and the union of two good forgivers.
Marriage is a divine covenant between man and woman which God is a witness and among the signatories.
Marriage is not a short time game and never intended to break at will.
Marriage is a bond, a tie, a covenant and the strongest relationship on earth.
Marriage relationship brings the man and woman into one flesh, one bone, one blood and into one spirit and sealed by God.
Based on what says marriage is, the couple should seek ways to please each other.
Love and forgiveness should reign supreme in the family.
The wife must obey her husband in everything as unto the Lord.
The husband should not see the wife as a slave but as a part of him.
Each of them should dance to the tune and track of peace every time and everywhere.
Say sorry when you are at fault and always admit your fault.
Respect each other’s opinion before decision and never take marital law at your single decision.
Pray together, pray for one another and always appreciate each other, no matter the situation.
Correct each other with love with mild voice and always use soft voice and soft words to achieve your aim in your family.
Be patient with each other, serve each other and always be pitting each other and heart full of praise.
Make time to play together, kissing, joking together, studying together and enough time to live together.
Interaction and storytelling are important issues to build love and family life, don’t neglect them at all.
Surrender yourself for family sex and never reject such request from your partner unless with useful explanation or necessary excuses.
Buy gifts for your partner, no matter how big or small that might be, because gift is a converter.
Plan together, voice out your vision and let two of you carry out your life objectives and visions.
Eat together, sleep together and share life together, because there is power in togetherness.
Be faithful to each other and live for each other because love cannot succeed without faithfulness.
Family devotion, family fasting and prayers and family Bible study are very important issues that build the home.
Closeness to each other is a clear evidence of love, don’t withdraw from your partner but always be closer, because closeness and cleaving together are related.
Forgiveness is the key to family life and continuous freshness, because every happy marriage must be the union of two good forgivers.
Your money is your partners money, therefore, don’t hide your pocket, your income or your business to your partner, because it is not true to surrender your heart to your partner without surrendering your purse.
There must be single financial vision, single financial management and single financial goals, even though, there maybe different bank accounts and different signatories in the banks, still with one vision.
There must be united efforts, unity of purposes and pursuit in the family planning and focus.
The husband and wife must have one vision, one aim and one objectives, even though they may be involved in different businesses, different ministries and different occupations, still with the same family vision.
Sharing things in common is a strong pillar that holds the family peace, therefore cleave to this.
Continuous closeness, steady walk and diligently working for JESUS are eh only foundation that cannot fail, therefore adhere to these.
Steady obedience to the Holyghost is the secret of family survival, therefore, don’t neglect this.
Trusting each other, relying upon each other and helping each other are necessities to the stability of every family.
Quick reconciliation in times of disagreement through apologies and forgiveness is a strong attack to the demons of family crisis.
Don’t be ashamed to walk along with your partner, but always move with him or her, walk with him or her, and always involve your partner in your goals, businesses, plans and in your missions.
Always present your partner as the best, both in public or in private places, make him or her to know that you care and that you value him or her.

There are always solutions to family crisis and other unfriendly experiences at homes. May families, individuals and even divorced couples have been blessed, reconciled, settled, re-united and be fruitful through the marriage counseling and prayers of Rev Prof Emma Ononuju. You can reach Prof Ononuju on phone through the following lines +234-808 8857 694, +234 810 784 3029.

FAMILY BUILDING PROGRAMS
There are many things that can cause family crisis, cases, death, barrenness, divorcement, family weakness, unhealthy family relationships, disunity, fighting, poverty, family troubles, failures and other unfriendly experiences in the family. It is very important and necessary for every couple to know these enemies in their homes and know how to avoid them, attack them or to defect them in order to build the strongest family relationship.

The strongest way to win family crisis is to know the causes and to know how to fight them. No family can be strongly built without knowing where the enemies of the family are and what the enemies are, thus, this lesson comes with the revelations of the cause of family troubles and pains. Below are the thieves that steal the family peace.

FORTY (40) THINGS THAT CAUSE FAMILY PROBLEMS
Healing comes by knowing the causes. There are many issues that can destroy families if not known early and fight against them early also. Below are those 40 enemies of the peaceful homes which have rendered many homes useless.

Sinful habits and Christless attitude.
Unfaithfulness to each other and secret sins
Wrong use of tongue and hostile vibrations
Hypocrisy and abnormal pretence at home
Deceit and lying to each other
Lavishious spending and laziness
Childlessness, barrenness and infertility
Clash of interest and deliberate disobedience
Unforgiveness and frequent repetition or rehearsal of past issues.
Poverty, dry pocket, lack and financial emptiness at home, these occur only to impatient and carnal life partner or an avaricious partner.
Weak love and deliberate disobedience
Bad behavior carelessness and all forms of rough exhibitions at home.
Bad management of family finance and stinginess to family needs.
Unsatisfied sexual relationship and animalistic type of sex.
Threatening statements and harsh words.
Bad family foundation and devil powers
Curses inherited from fathers or curses attracted through personal sins
Demonic attacks and evil depression
Evil covenants through parents or through dreams
Demonic marriage through dreams or through occultation.
Demonic possessions among a partner or the two.
Marine spirits and the presence of river gods.
Influence of an occult powers
Dream covenants or evil engagements.
Hereditary or parental transference.
Adulterous activities and illegal sex outside the marriage.
Ancestral sins and family bondages.
Cheating and deceiving one another
The presence of the serpent at home
Christlessness, poor spirituality and careless spiritual equipment
The presence of the fathers, mothers, brothers and sisters including all in-laws in your family are the enemies that disturb your peace.
Poor interaction between the couple can cause great damages at home.
The third party syndrome, friends and all well wishers in your family management is too dangerous to your family survival.
Starvation or hunger at home is another enemy of family peace.
Hard drugs and the influence of alcoholic drinks
Fetish ideology and occult practices are enemies to family harmony
Consequences of sins of past and all unbroken evil covenants are family enemies.
Spiritism and occult practices are enemies to the peaceful family and family harmony.
Weak erection, impotency and poor sex drive can break a family and cause divorce.
Carelessness, carefree, negligence to family needs and all forms of . it doesn’t matter attitude are enemies to growing families, while all thoughts, feelings and reasons to polygamous policy, polyandrous behavior or bigamous relationship are the present images of Lucifer to destroy couples.

Many calls from far cities to Rev Prof Emma Ononuju concerning His family counseling have been received and treated Biblically. We also encourage all victims of family problems to come in person to see Prof Ononuju or to contact him through the following telephone lines. +234-810 784 3029, +234 808 8857 694.

SOLUTIONS TO FAMILY PROBLEMS CRISIS AND FAMILY CONFUSIONS
There are solutions to family problems, crisis, demonic attacks and all family confusions. God’s word is not silent towards all family crisis and unhealthy family relationships in the churches today. Family crisis, though not the will of God, but are natural to man as a result of Adams fall. Here are the curves to the family crisis and marriage confusions.

ADVICE TO MARRIED COUPLES

Do not see your life partner as another person, remember, it is one flesh, one soul and one body,, and knowing this will make you to treat him as you treat yourself.
Don’t see his mistakes and errors as external but see them as having been done by you, because it is one body, one soul and one flesh. She is you and you are she, he is you and you are him, never two persons but one, knowing this will help you to pray for each other.
She is not a stranger at your side but only an entity that makes you complete and to be whom God created you to be, therefore, don’t seek rooms for divorce,, separation or any room for cancellation of the covenant.
Correct all wrong notions, wrong words, wrong behaviours and change them with positive ideas about your partner.
Don’t dream, think or have any feeling that gears towards bigamy, polygamy, polyandry or any replacement of your partner because you are in everlasting covenant with whom you marry, therefore amend, pray, correct, build, forgive, leave and forsake all malice and anger that may lead to negative influence in your home.

GODS PLAN FOR MARRIAGE
God is the founder and initiator of marriage and still cares for homes. Devil hates homes and always seeks to destroy it. Below are God’s continuous plans for marriage.

Marriage is made to be for two persons alone.
Marriage is made to be permanent which shall not be broken at will.
What God has joined together not bodies authorized to break it.
It is for people of like faith, like hope and people of like destiny.
It ends at death because it is ever lasting covenant.
Marriage is a covenant of love and faithfulness coupled with respect to God’s word.
It is only legal and scriptural means to have children.

FOUR (4) STAGES OF MARITAL LIFE
There are four stages of marital life which every couple and all intending couples should know. Below are the basic four stages in marital process.

THE FORM STAGE

The form state in marriage is the period of marriage engagement, courtship or the very period of marriage formation. This period is also extended to the first year of the wedding or the first after joining. This period is full of love, sweet fellowship, pitting and is also the nice period of learning each other. It is called the honeymoon period and time of formation.

THE STORM STAGE

This is the period of marital testing, period of tougher education, period of debate, learning, knowing each other and period of arguments. This is the period of initial crisis that is as a result of learning each other, knowing each other, knowing each other and understanding issues of marriage. Every married couple passes through this stage. It is a period of storm and initial crisis at home. The crisis or storm at this stage is not evil crisis and not caused by demons, but natural because it is the only route and process to know each other. It is the crisis that leads to family building, understanding, love and trust at home after it.

NORM STAGE

This is the period when the storm is over, when the newly couple have known each other, understood each other and properly cleave to each other. This is the period when the marriage becomes sweet, though, prone to other dangers and attacks. The family fellowship and love are now growing and the couple perhaps is at second, third, or even at the fourth year of marriage relationship. Here peace and understanding have started growing while the shape of things are visible, perhaps one or two children are born and issues that generate harmony started coming into the family, that is why it is called the norm – normal (stage).

PERFORM STAGE

The perform is the last stage in marital journey. It is the sweet, most peaceful, the best and the most harmonious stage in marriage. This is when family income perhaps is increased and when unity, harmony, peace, love, understanding and forgiveness have overtaken the family. It is when the family vision, goals, plans, focus, management and pursuit become one. This is when interaction, reconciliation, closeness and united efforts become real. It is when ideas, finance and family programs become one. It is when value or regard is accorded to each other. This when the husband and wife can plan together to achieve their goals successfully as one body. This is the only period when the family life can perform actively to achieve why God called family one body and one flesh.

CURE TO BROKEN HOUSES
All affected couples, couples to be or all singles who desire to be coupled later are invited to special family programs of Rev Prof Ononuju. Please check what your case is and call.

Is your own family restoration, healing or deliverance?
Are your family or marriage in fire?
Have you divorced your partner and needs reconciliation.
Are you planning to marry or searching on whom to marry?

Whatever your marital case may be call these phones +234 8107843029, +234 8088857694.

FAMILY CRISIS DELIVERANCE
Here are issues to follow in order to be free from family crisis and to have deliverance or protection in demon caused family crisis.

ADVICE TO ALL SINGLES AND WOULD BE COUPLES

Pray very well and know the will of God before entering into marriage relationship.
Make sure you are marrying whom you love and whom you can cherish or bear his or her own burden.
Make sure you allow Holy ghost to lead you, in order to make the right choice in marriage.
Remember, the period of courtship is the period of prayers and devotion to God.

ADVICE TO COUPLES AND OLD MARRIAGES

Dedicate your family to God and make sure you have an active family altar.
Be obedient to the word of God and to the whispering of the Holy spirit.
Build your family according to God’s pattern and in truth also.
Be faithful in all your marital dealing in order to attract God’s peace and blessings.
Invite Jesus in all your marital transactions.
Cleave to and living with your partner in order to get God’s miracles
Abide in God’s principles of marriage in order to live in God’s promises for marriage.

DEMONS ACTIVITIES AT HOMES

Many homes, including those of some of the church goers are being controlled, ruled, led and ruined by forces of darkness, either known or unknown to the victims. Most of the family problems today which are attributed to bad characters or sinful behaviours are the activities of demons in the families. Devil hates families and started very early to fight its existence Gen 3:1-20. The family is God’s channel of spreading His laws and godly principles Gen 6:1-8, 6:8-22, Gen 11:27-32, Gen 12:1-20. The home also is the devils base to destroy and to fight the moral principles and godly relationship in man. Home is devils field to hinder God’s plan for the society, thus, homes become devil’s targets of attacks.

HOW THE DEMONS CREEP INTO FAMILIES
There are many ways the demons creep into families to destroy and to attack the families. Below are some of the ways through which the devil can creep into careless families.

When the prayer force of the family is weak.
Through lust of flesh and adulterous activities.
By keeping stolen properties in the family house
Through infant initiation and occult practices
Through paternal or maternal connections and sins
Through bad family foundation of each of the partners or both of them.
By curses inherited from family background or from the marital connection.
Through ungodly rituals and ungodly practices
Through eating or drinking evil afflicted foods or drinks, either in burials or during ceremonies.
By unknown or known association with a demonic
By family quarrelings and through a cursing each other.
By living in a demonic house, occult house or ritualistic building
Through wrong religion or fetish religion and practices.
Through dreams and prophecies.
By demonic seduction and evil transference
By wrong prayers and wrong fastings
By accepting bad prayers and bad prophecies from occult pastors and evil ministers.
Through sexual intercourse with a demonic
Through an ignorant usage of occult powder, occult cream, occult pomade or occult property.
Through seductive appearances, sexual or immoral suggestive dressings or attires.
Demons can enter families through wrong money at home or wrong child gotten by incestuous relationship and through wrong confession or wrong ambitions of the couple.

HOW TO DETECT DEVIL’S PRESENCE IN THE FAMILY
Many couples do not know when the devils are in charge of their family activities or when the demons are controlling their family affairs and actions. Below are how to detect demonic presence and actions in the families or homes.

Frequent sicknesses of the family members especially when that is periodic.
Frequent quarrelling, disagreements or fighting that are caused by little thing or nothing.
Abrupt poverty, hardship or frequent liquidation of the family business and source of income.
Disunity, hatred and enmity between husband and wife that at times last for days, weeks or months.
Death of children with or without strong traces of the sickness that killed them.
Divorce or family separation that occurred which its strong source cannot be traced.
Divorce or family separation that occurred and later brought regret to both partners.
Unfriendly relationship between husband and wife that affected their children and other relations.
Unnecessary losses, failures and troubles at homes.
Evil dreams of wedding or marrying another partner.
Evil dreams of giving births to babies or having sex in dreams.
Having the same evil or bad experiences with your mother, father or with other closer relatives of yours.
Failing where others are succeeding and weeping where others are rejoicing due to bad conditions.
Family confusion, crisis and family disorganization
Disinterest in family sex and rejection of cordial relationship
Departure of the first love and reigning of strange action.
Sexual desire and sexual drive to be with another person but no sexual desire to meet with your partner.
Incestuous desire among the family members.
Pocket with holes, and frequent lavicious spending at home.
Frequent discomfort with your partner and senses of uneasiness to stay with your partner.
Distrust among the couple and fear each other at home.
Seeing snakes, lions, mad people or dead relations in dreams frequently.
Frequent missing of domestic items or house property at home.
Hatred to each other’s voice and crisis prone environment.
Living in occult man’s house or being a tenant to diabolic person.
Living within the environment of spiritism or within the area of mermaid worship or near mortuary.
Usage of protective rings charms or other property of the demons.

STEPS TO EJECT DEMONS OUT OF YOUR HOME
The Bible is not silent towards how to eject demons out of our homes if his presence is now detected. The follow principles should be followed in order to eject demons out of the victims family or home.

Repentance and confession are necessities to tell the unwanted friend or neighbor to go out of the home.
The husband and wife should make necessary confession, restitution and reconciliation to each other.
Staging of two, three or four days fasting and prayers with strongest aim of stopping devils further invasion at home.
Inviting a nearby deliverance and sincere gospel minister or come straight or call on Rev Prof Emma Ononuju for counseling and deliverance prayers.
Throwing away and burning every strange property, ill gotten property or sinful acquired items in the house.
Stop all bad advisers who visit your home only to ignite fire between you and your partner.
Stop all sinful and deceitful prayer houses whose prophecies and ministries aim at bringing troubles in your home.
Cleave to God and be serious with God, with the Bible and with christian fellowship.
Be prayerful, be spiritual, be holy and live righteously every day to avoid devil’s second attack.
Learn the strength and weaknesses of your partner and always say “sorry” when you are at fault.
Avoid heart provoking words and don’t go back to any forgotten issues because they devils ladder to climb into your family again.
Begin to do those things which you stopped doing to your partner because of such family disagreement.

If you have any problem in all the taught in Rev Prof Emma Ononuju’s family counseling and broken family restoration, call write or visit Rev Prof Ononuju in any of the stipulated means of contact at the end of this program.

THE WILL OF GOD IN MARRIAGE
The will of God in marriage is the issue every Christian should know, pursue and capture. It is a necessary issue in marriage and the fundamental doctrine in matrimonialogy. The will of God is the basic truth in the stability of every marriage, still it is the most debatable point in marriage hence others believe that we find our wives while others believe that God gives us our wives. “And the lord God said, it is not good that the man should be alone, I will make him a help mate for him, and the Lord caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and he slept and He took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh instead thereof, and the rib which the Lord God had taken from manmade he a woman and brought her unto the man”. Gen. 2:18, 21, 22. This is where marriage started from the plan of God and according to God’s choice. Marriage is the first institution on earth. God started it God ordained it and God owns it. Marriage is the union of a husband and wife. It is not man and woman affair but husband and wife affair which resulted to oneness. “And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh”. Gen 2:23. Marriage is the greatest relationship on earth and also the greatest institution on earth. Marriage is for mature man and the mature woman. It is not a business of boys and girls. It is a divine programme meant for adults who have reached the age of parenting others. It is a programme of a mature man who is alone and ready to seek the will of God and to find a wife. “ He that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord”. Prov. 18:22.

The issue of choosing a wife by ourselves and God given us his choice has been a big debate judging from Adam’s experience. The truth about Adam’s case is that Adam needed a wife closer to him but there was no woman on earth, thus God initiated a step of giving him a wife (See Gen 2:20-25). There are issues in marriage that signify the help of God without which God is not there. The help of God in marriage as these stated below must magnified, seen or observed before we enter into marriage or while we are in marriage process.

WHAT THE WILL OF GOD IN CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE IS

Both would be couple must be Christians of one faith, one conviction, one confession and one hope. Bible did not support the marriage between believers and unbelievers. The first will of God in marriage is that they must be Christian.
There must be unshakable and persuasive love from both of them. This love may start the marital journey or emerges at the middle of their engagement, but there must be a steady and unshakeable love among them.
There should be a cleaving heart resulting to selfless desire for each and total surrenderness of will and wishes to each other.
Another evidence of God’s will in marriage is that there should be a solid agreement between two of them resulting to a spiritual covenant done by the Holy Spirit.
There should be Holy Ghost conviction of God’s will in any divine programme among them. Which includes guiding people in their marriage proposals.
One of the greatest evidence of God’s will in marriage is short sightedness of the person to see the weakness, blamishness, ugly condition or problems of the proposed partner irrespective of what others see in him or her, but love covers such weaknesses.
The bold manifestation of the proposed partners beauty, handsomeness and kindness is another sign of God’s will, hence the proposed partner does not see, nor know the proposed wife or husband to be ugly, but only see beauty or handsomeness.
God’s will in marriage can be revealed in dreams, visions, trances, through Godly prophecies, through preaching, teaching God’s words or by reading the scripture. God is not limited in one system of revelation.
God’s will in marriage can also be reveled through positive prayers, Holy Ghost conviction, inner heart witnessing, or through strong sign from God.
The will of God can at times cause sleeplessness, restlessness, peacelessness or unnecessary anxiety between the two persons.

WHAT THE WILL OF GOD IS NOT
The will of God is not pre-marital sex
The will of God is not lust or carnal ambition.
The will of God is not secret ungodly engagement.
The will of God is not the choice of people.
The will of God in marriage is not public opinion.
The will of God is not people’s best or people’s support.
The will of God is not the family’s idea or family’s best.

WHAT HINDERS GOD’S WILL IN MARRIAGE
Ungodly advice and public opinions
Fear of tomorrow and obedience to parents instead of God and His word.
Poor knowledge of the truth and spiritual weakness.
Sinful commitment and wrong engagement.
Pre-marital sex and diabolic activities in marriage.
Impatience and hurriedness to wait upon God.
Disobedience to the silent voices of God.

MISTAKES PEOPLE MAKE BEFORE MARRIAGE
Hasty and casual prayers before marriage.
Seeking for beauty, riches, education or family background before marriage.
Considering physical more than spiritual before decision of whom to marry.
Marry person without the same faith and but one with contrary conviction.
Marrying money, motor, beauty, profession, property or family background instead of the person who is a helpmate or coverage.
Marrying through people recommendation instead of the person convinced and directed by God and His word.
Marrying by people’s persuasion, directives and by peoples leadership without God.

Pray well, consider issues and seek the face of GOD, don’t enter marriage in haste, remember you will not marry twice.

Don’t marry because the person is too close to you, nor marry because you pity him or her, remember, marriage is not a game of pity but a game of divine love.

Avoid long engagement in marriage and never accept sex before joinging, remember, 95% of long engagements ended up in disappointments while 98% sex before joining ended up in crisis, disappointments and failure at last.

Abortion while in marital engagement is a sign of future disengagement; therefore avoid any proposed partner who supports abortion while in secret engagement with you.

WHAT HINDERS SOME LADIES MARRIAGES

Marriage of some spinsters and even some bachelors are hindered due to some issues they often neglect. The under listed issues have hindered the marriages of many ladies and have even made some of them to remain unmarred. Listed below are the causes of long spinsterhood and why many ladies never marry till date:

Bad behavior, foolishness and pride in public.
Talkativeness, harlotry and negative self exposure.
Frequent appearances in clubs, public cinema and night clubs that destroy their future.
Rough life, social blame, negative fame and slanderous words from others.
Evil marks, negative presentations and disrespect.
Demonic oppression, demonic affliction and influence.
Bad family foundation, evil covenants and ancestral cults.
Curses, unseen evil altars and demonic bondages.
Demonic marriage, bad demonic bondage.
Bad family history and bad parental activities
Incest and abominable life or self deceit.
Dream bondage, slaveries and evil experiences
Ancestral and generational curses in the land
Mermaid spirits and demonic marriages.

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN GOD IS NOT IN LEAD

When God is not in lead of you any marriage from the beginning, the family shall be crowded with crisis, distrust, bitterness, disunity, hatred, fighting, disagreement, sickness, anxiety, failures, troubles and all forms of unwanted experiences at home.

HOW TO CHOOSE A LIFE PARTNER
Seek counseling from spiritual men of God
Pray for the will of God seriously
Have a spiritual marital mentor
Do not look on faces but tell God to bring the wife or husband as He did to Adam and Eve
Listen to what the Holy Ghost may tell you which may come through revelations, by magnifying a lady’s beauty before you or by directing you to one lady or to one man.
Give God condition and watch out how He shall meet such condition concerning your marriage.
Meet a serious and sincere man of God for a special prayer on that, this is very important if there are hindrances in your marriage.

SEVEN (7) LAWS BEFORE MARRIAGE
Do not entice each other with gifts because this may lead to wrong choice and can block the prayers to God.
Do not enter into long and secret engagement because this may break your prestige before each other and can also lead to premarital sex and through that, destroy your future or break your joy.
Avoid pre-marital sex because it must surely kill your family trust, reliance and your family unity in future.
Do not marry any person because of self pity, neither because of sympathy for him or her, nor because of help, any of these shall later become your greatest enemy in your family.
Do not marry the choice of many if such one is not your choice, if you do, this must surely lead you to divorce in future.
Do not marry through charms and diabolic means because these have their limited times to expire and the worst hatred, fighting or divorce shall be the end.
Discover the spiritual background of the person you intend to marry, these will include all discoveries whether the person is a roughian, whether the person had married before and still have a living partner elsewhere and the picture image of his or her family. These discoveries shall run in line with your prayers and shall reveal the will of God for you.

SEVEN (7) THINGS YOU MUST KNOW ABOUT MARRIAGE
Marriage is not a contract but a great covenant that lasts till death.
There should be no divorce after marriage, and if this devilishly occurred, there should be no other marriage. Second marriage or bigamy is not allowed when the first partner is alive.
There should be no extra marital sex (adultery) after joining at the altar or elsewhere, and all that do this, break eternal covenant.
Polygamy is not allowed, no matter how wicked and foolish the wife maybe. It is only one husband, one wife and never a man with two wives.
Marriage is the union of two good forgivers, the union of two great lovers, the union of two big bones, the union of two wonderful persons that become one, that need no more separation till death.
Marriage is the greatest relationship on earth that has no other substitute.
Every married person is bound by the law of his or her marriage till death, therefore, marriage as a moving car has no reverse gear.

DELIVERANCE PROCEDURE IN FAMILY CRISIS

Discover what your problem is and what hinders your marriage and deal with it.
Search for a genuine man of God and a true deliverance minister for proper deliverance.
Be ready to change, to confess, ready to make all necessary restitutions if you need deliverance.
If after all effort, no success please call on +234 8056614554, +234 8139088958. For comprehensive prayers and total deliverance.
Visit El Emancipation ministry on Thursdays by 10am till 3pm for proper deliverance or call the phone numbers above.

Pride, high mindedness, higher esteem of self and over rejection of marriages may hinder your marriage and may above God’s will for you, therefore be more careful here.

Late marriage is not evil but remember the beauty and shinning period of every woman is between her ages of 18 and 28, therefore don’t joke with this period, while man’s shinning stage and his own age of handsomeness is between his ages of 25 and 35, don’t miss this period.

After the shinning periods of man and woman, the class that would marry such one may depart and another class may set in for the same marriage, therefore be more careful for your shinning periods.

IN SEARCH OF FAMILY PEACE?
Those in search of family peace, family reconciliation, family harmony, family healing, family love or in search of restoration of family glory and stability should not kill themselves, nor lose any hope of betterment, but should believe in God of all restoration and God of great healing. Remember, all who need the promises of God must abide by the principles of God and as many as need the harvest from God must sow in God, while salvation shall never come without repentance. Remember, that whatever one sows the same shall the one reap. Gal 6:7. God wants you to repent wherever you failed in connection with your family crisis and marriage matters and now call upon Him for total restoration and miraculous family healing today. You can receive your expected miracles of family healing today. You can call, write or visit Rev Prof Emma Ononuju for your family related cases and see your deliverance and family restoration as God will use him to bless you.

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